{"id":3406,"date":"2020-10-20T11:44:21","date_gmt":"2020-10-20T16:44:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/?p=3406"},"modified":"2020-10-20T12:26:50","modified_gmt":"2020-10-20T17:26:50","slug":"cady-groves-part-xii-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/?p=3406","title":{"rendered":"Cady Groves, Part XIII"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>See, I just don&#8217;t <em>get <\/em>it, though.  Like, what the fuck, people?<\/p>\n<p>Ok, I&#8217;ve been searching.  WHERE were all the&#8230; public displays of sorrow and such over Cady&#8217;s passing?  Seriously.  Like, where the hell WAS all of that?<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t get it.  It&#8217;s like, she was incredibly successful in her own way.  I mean, tens millions of views of youtube.  And if you include that remix, hundreds of millions of views.  Where&#8230; <em>is <\/em>it, then?  What happened?  I mean it see lots of it from the fans, but nothing at all from anybody in the industry.  It&#8217;s kinda disturbing.<\/p>\n<p>I mean, you look at the social media of the people who were closest to her and&#8230; nothing.  It&#8217;s mystifying.  Like, everyone else gets <em>so much<\/em>, even those who were less popular than she was.  I mean, these are celebs, and they <em>never <\/em>miss a chance to do some harmless public emoting!  Right?  That being said&#8230; I don&#8217;t get it.  Outside of that one very tangential tweet from Chase Ryan&#8230; there&#8217;s nothing else.  Almost like there&#8217;s been some kind of universal gag order put in place about this, or something.<\/p>\n<p>So, then.  What happened?<\/p>\n<p>I mean, I kind of get&#8230; a hunch, maybe, that she might have been kinda hard to work with.  Maybe burned a bridge or two.  Or three, or more.  I mean&#8230; I read that article, about what happened to her album, and how she just dropped it because of&#8230; personal issues.  But&#8230; she wasn&#8217;t <em>that <\/em>bad, right?  Couldn&#8217;t have been.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8230; don&#8217;t know.  I mean <em>I<\/em> loved her, lol.  Like, a lot.  In the industry, was I&#8230; the only one?  I mean, the only one who really liked her all the way through.  Hmmn.  Was she <em>THAT <\/em>hard to deal with?<\/p>\n<p>Ahhh&#8230; wait, I&#8217;m having an episode, lol.  A narcotics dizzy spell&#8230; uh, woah.<\/p>\n<p>But uh, wait,  maybe the alcohol was a bigger problem than I thought, and she fucked up a lot more than I realized.  <\/p>\n<p>oh, I need to stop here, holy fuck, oof.  oh god,lol<\/p>\n<p>uh, closing thought- people should have appreciated her more, loved her for who she was in spite of her foibles, I think.  IDK I would have loved her.  But yeah, considering how dysfunctional I am&#8230; IDK<\/p>\n<p>I WILL write about this later, just as soon as I can breathe again.<\/p>\n<p>Count on it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>See, I just don&#8217;t get it, though. Like, what the fuck, people? Ok, I&#8217;ve been searching. WHERE were all the&#8230; public displays of sorrow and such over Cady&#8217;s passing? Seriously. Like, where the hell WAS all of that? I don&#8217;t get it. It&#8217;s like, she was incredibly successful in her own way. I mean, tens [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3406"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3406"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3406\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3411,"href":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3406\/revisions\/3411"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3406"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3406"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3406"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}