{"id":1996,"date":"2016-06-23T21:05:33","date_gmt":"2016-06-24T02:05:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/?p=1996"},"modified":"2016-06-23T21:05:33","modified_gmt":"2016-06-24T02:05:33","slug":"demi-lovato-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/?p=1996","title":{"rendered":"Demi Lovato"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>had a Twitter meltdown, kinda.  It wasn&#8217;t blood curdling or bone chilling like mine typically are, but it was a meltdown, somewhat.<\/p>\n<p>She quit Twitter in a huff and then came back with an agitated rant about society and the superficiality of everything, these days.<\/p>\n<p>When she quit Twitter earlier, I thought about tweeting her some advice.  Here&#8217;s what I wrote out in a brainstorm:<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Hmmmm&#8230; it might be better to pace yourself, rather than quitting 100%.  From here, you look too invested, I think.<\/p>\n<p>You have about as many tweets as Selena, Taylor and Katy P. combined.  Seriously- 15K is ALOT of tweets. <\/p>\n<p>I think social media is best used infrequently, as a supplement.  That way it won&#8217;t affect you too much.  Just my 2 cents.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>I think that&#8217;s still good advice, and I think I&#8217;ll take in myself, and not tweet her.  I&#8217;m sure she can figure it out as she matures.  She&#8217;s still very young, and so Twitter will probably factor into what she does regardless of what I say to her.<\/p>\n<p>Looking at everything now, it seems like Christina&#8217;s death is still affecting things.  It is for me, at least, and I&#8217;m sure that it is for Demi and the others, too.  <\/p>\n<p>IMHO, you don&#8217;t get over something like that quickly.  Getting over a death takes time, and in the case of a sudden, violent death, it takes more than time; it takes adjustment.  After something like what happened with Christina, you can&#8217;t just pick yourself up and go on, say, like you can after a friend&#8217;s death from a long battle with lung cancer.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not 100% sure of what Demi and the others are thinking, but I can imagine what I would be thinking were I in their place, right now, and I can tell you that I would be questioning everything.  Because after that kind of sudden shock, what else <i>can<\/i> you do?<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s unfortunate, in our society, how we&#8217;re expected to just pick up and move along after some kind of trauma, like an unexpected death.  It&#8217;s like people don&#8217;t even want to listen- like listening would somehow damage <em>them<\/em>.  Like hearing about others&#8217; burdens would rub off something bad on them, somehow.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s unfortunate.  <\/p>\n<p>Well, I kind of got off topic, but there it is.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>had a Twitter meltdown, kinda. It wasn&#8217;t blood curdling or bone chilling like mine typically are, but it was a meltdown, somewhat. She quit Twitter in a huff and then came back with an agitated rant about society and the superficiality of everything, these days. When she quit Twitter earlier, I thought about tweeting her [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1996"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1996"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1996\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2007,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1996\/revisions\/2007"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}