{"id":2865,"date":"2020-08-21T22:46:14","date_gmt":"2020-08-22T03:46:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sighinide.com\/?p=2865"},"modified":"2020-08-21T22:46:14","modified_gmt":"2020-08-22T03:46:14","slug":"cady-groves-part-ii-addendum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/?p=2865","title":{"rendered":"Cady Groves, Part II, Addendum"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hmmmnn\u2026 lol.  It\u2019s I guess apropos that I just cried my eyes out.  Thought about putting this in the below\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou were an incredible, beautiful, wonderful woman.  It\u2019s not for nothing that you were awarded \u2018Girl of the Day\u2019 in a bit of-tongue-in-cheek understatement in this very blog.  Not famous?  Don\u2019t care.  Not important to when it comes to someone like you, even to someone like me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I like that quote as I think it summarizes so much of our love, so I will put it in here.  I\u2026 need to make the memory of what we had count, even just for me.  But, I\u2019m tired.<\/p>\n<p>Oh man, lol.<\/p>\n<p>Life is a tragedy into itself.  Hollywood is unnecessary, considering the lives we live.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe that\u2019s the key to it all.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps the magic of the silver screen, of song, of dance and image, isn\u2019t that it conjures up drama, but that it hides it.  It clouds the real- the real struggle, the real loss, with fairy tale and happy endings and safe and predictable conclusions that free us from the real\u2026 the actually dramatic.  From life.<\/p>\n<p>Ah\u2026 but\u2026 that\u2019s not a thought for now.<\/p>\n<p>Goodbye Cady.  <\/p>\n<p>I will always remember, and treasure, every little thing.  Maybe when I croak I\u2019ll bury myself with a little flash drive containing some not-so-little memories of us and the times we spent together and a sample of what we created together.  You know, just the little part that landed online, this blog included.  LOL.<\/p>\n<p>But I\u2019m smiling now, though.<\/p>\n<p>One last time&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Bye, Cady.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hmmmnn\u2026 lol. It\u2019s I guess apropos that I just cried my eyes out. Thought about putting this in the below\u2026 \u201cYou were an incredible, beautiful, wonderful woman. It\u2019s not for nothing that you were awarded \u2018Girl of the Day\u2019 in a bit of-tongue-in-cheek understatement in this very blog. Not famous? Don\u2019t care. Not important to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2865"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2865"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2865\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2866,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2865\/revisions\/2866"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2865"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2865"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sighinide.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2865"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}