At any rate, I hope that others understand this, too.
Do you want a relationship with me? If so, do you want it to actually work? Then perhaps it would be wise for you to communicate with me. To tell me what’s going on somehow, so that the relationship can actually evolve healthily, like it should.
Communication avoids stupid dramas and dumb confusions. It really is the lifeblood of any successful long term relationship. No communication? No relationship. That’s how life works. It’s as simple as that.
You want to be with me? Fine. Then let me know what’s going on or FUCK OFF.