People, you need to stop just doing random stuff without thinking about me.
I’m referring to my girlfriends here mostly, but frankly I’m including everyone else in this, too.
What it basically boils down to is that at least as far as careers and stuff go in entertainment, my wants / needs / whatever are more important than essentially anything else, etc.
It’s always for the best to just address me directly, and tell me what you are doing / thinking, and to avoid weird surprises. Basically, you need to make it easy for me, and the easier the better. And this often boils down to not touching stuff after we’ve already established it’s importance and such.
So- no surprises, and I mean like ever. You need to tell me what you are doing and thinking, and the more direct and obvious you can make the telling the better.
I think the key here is that these are romantic relationships / marriages, and again, these require communication to work correctly. So- no weird surprises. I mean, I’ve been talking about this for years now, and I seriously mean it.
So don’t do stuff like what Taylor Swift did and just up and delete your social media at some random point or whatever. If you do that, and I need to investigate something in your (our) past, it becomes too much of a hassle. So don’t do that stuff. I don’t care what your manager or agent or your parents tell you. Don’t do it, since their opinions are of lesser importance since 1) They aren’t as smart or as talented as I am, and 2) They aren’t as important to you anyhow once we get into “relationship mode” together. So don’t do it.
So yeah, don’t delete old stuff. I mean, just don’t do it, and I mean like ever. Old vlogs? Leave them up. Old instagram pics? Leave them alone. Old music videos? Don’t touch them, like ever.
Whatever the reasoning might be behind making radical changes to your style or career, it is more important to you in the long run to keep me happy and knowledgeable about what is going on- believe me.
So, yeah. I mean, that stuff is important. I mean I already talked about Chloe East’s old vlogs and stuff, and now that we’re on the subject, I wouldn’t mind seeing Johnny Sequoyah’s old stuff, either, not to mention Lexi Jayde’s music videos, which is kinda what sparked this rant. I mean, I was going to use those for research but since they’re not there, I guess I’ll be investigating someone else, then.
I mean, seriously. You need to make it easy for me if you really want to connect with me. Seems obvious, no? But apparently it isn’t to some.
Think of it this way: if there is ever a question about whether you should delete your old music videos or vlogs or whatever, just ask yourself: what would Victoria Justice do? And then, look at her youtube channel, and the answer should become obvious.
Successful relationships require thought and planning, and good plans for the future can come only from firm knowledge of where you have been in the past.
So… yeah, there you go.